Sports columnist Peter King writes a column called 10 Things I Think I think. I am borrowing his format as it is too early to form a cohesive opinion, post-election, but I want to get some random thoughts in writing. Trying to not make this political, actually.
First, I want to share a story from my friend and colleague Melissa Flowers. She is bi-racial and says her white mother has taken heat for supporting Donald Trump. People are accusing her of being racist. Now, you can have racist views even if you are a person of color. Melissa's mom married a black man in a time when mixed marriages were not common nor acceptable and she endured threats of violence as a result. To label, to generalize, and to dismiss others is unfair. Compassion, understanding, and humanity matter now more than ever.
1. I think a college campus is a great place to be during an election: This is the first time for many people to vote; it is where people should be having deep and challenging discussions; faculty experts can illuminate topics/issues with great skill, background, and authority; and finally there is a lot of support for those wanting to process outcomes and discuss with others.They call it rarefied air.
2. The scheduled conversation held on campus the afternoon after the election was really terrific. Thanks to some foresight, this was planned in advance regardless of the outcome (good call, Stacy Davidson). I would have napped and tweeted a picture there, but wanted to respect people's privacy. You would have seen people packed into a room in upstairs Coates. It was gritty and it was raw. Both supporters and opponents of the President-elect were were represented and students were really articulate, emotional, and very candid.
3. Why are people emotional? For many, their identity and worth has been invalidated. The status quo has been reinforced. Privileged, straight white men remain in power. The issue for many is that they are being excluded. People of color, of different cultures, and of different gender identities are scared. If people can't see that then they are visually-impaired (yep). I think we need to work harder than ever to show students every one of them matters. Unless they keep complaining about our food.
4. I think it is interesting to watch campuses across the nation respond as though this were a campus crisis such as a fire, a virus, and active shooter. List-servs are lighting up. Make no mistake, every campus is responding to the concerns and fear of students and employees. This shows that we are in a different place than we have ever been.
5.We didn't ship in a new population of voters this November. What this election did was bring into the light those who agree with the positions of the President-elect and/or who didn't find his style should eliminate him from contention. So while the election result seems like a validation for some - and that invalidation for others - it simply is the outcome. It could have gone the other way. The campaign exposed a big divide. We were going to have to deal with that anyways. Or maybe we wouldn't have. But it wasn't going away.
6. I get it when people worry about the future. Is the person with his hand on the button stable? Will his ego affect his decisions? As a person who denies climate change, will he ignore or reverse progress to save the planet? Does this election tip the Supreme Court toward conservative decisions for decades to come? Is this the end of the world as we know it?
7. Or, do we give him the benefit of the doubt? The current President was undercut from the day he was elected. Why not give this President a chance? Maybe the worst of his hateful rhetoric was simply rhetoric. Well, it could happen.
8. I think this has brought out the best in some of our campus leaders: Danny Anderson, Deneese Jones, Jamie Thompson, Ben Stevens, and students Brenna Hill and Nick Santulli to name a few.
9. I think sometimes the Tigers for Liberty are their own worst enemies. But I think they have a voice we need. They aren't in right field... Well, they actually are, but you know what I mean. Their guy did get elected. I know many of them and they are good people and they shouldn't take grief for their positions or for being excited that they get to see what can happen under the new President.
10. I think that prospective and current students should be nervous. What will happen to federal aid and access? How will this affect diversity on campuses? What will happen to Title IX as it has been interpreted and enforced by our current administration?
On campus, we are moving from processing emotions to processing information, with teach-ins being scheduled. The campaign and the election are not just the beginning. We will have lots to talk about in the weeks and months ahead. I can think of no better place to be.
What do you think you think? Please comment.
7 comments:
Thank you for this thoughtful post
Thanks jj!
Trinity DAD,
Thanks for reading me and for your nice words!
I think I need to be careful because really, I want to inform people about the climate on campus as well as the issues, to facilitate sharing ideas, and to make it about the students and the process they are going through. And of course about me in an odd way. So I want to say as little as possible. But I do want to respond and illuminate the issues.
I think much of the old dialogue came very much from a traditional western perspective: Straight, white, male, and wealthy. I think that old perspective and the idea of privilege are being challenged and sometimes it is very personal for those wanting to be validated. People who feel oppressed are going to push back.
I think there were many who wanted to see President Obama fail because of his race and because he challenged the status quo.
And I agree and think if the election had gone differently there would not have been the coddling you describe. To many, the election was like a back-to-school special when you know at the end the bully will get his. When the bully didn't, in this case, it was an unexpected result. People of color, people of different genders, people of different cultures and faiths - they have a lot to process now. If the election went the other way, people in privilege would still have their privilege.
I think I would love to have a cup of coffee with you and discuss more should your visit schedule ever permit (dtyuttle@trinity.edu). Thank you for the civil and thoughtful response!
In support of Trinity Dad, your points are dead on and while we appreciate discourse I didn't read the blog you responded to as neutral but rather further expression of opinion on why others are wrong. This is unfortunately not surprising and thus the reason for the coddling on many college campuses. Life will bring many twists and turns and in many cases they don't fall your way, teach that and grow the responsibility to respect outcomes. That includes campus leadership.
Trinity Dad #2
Looks like I'm going to need a bigger coffee budget...
Well written, Mr. Tuttle & Trinity Dads. I am a Trinity Mom. Now I believe EVERYONE has a right to their own opinion and the FREEDOM to express their point-of-view. However, as the blog stated, “Why not give this President a chance?” And “Compassion, understanding, and humanity matter now more than ever.”
I awoke last Wednesday morning not knowing who was elected OUR president. Honestly, I was surprised that Donald Trump won…...and I voted for him! All I knew was that whoever was elected, I would pray for him/her and our nation; and that is what I am doing. My motto is, “Prayer not Protest!” Please note that I am not proselytizing. Support the USA, however, you do best. However, I am Catholic, and “That’s how I roll!”
The Constitution of the United States of America begins with “We the People…” I believe the PEOPLE, not the leaders make the difference. So, without sounding preachy….. STOP PROTESTING AND START DOING!!! In the words of Saint Teresa of Calcutta, “At the end of life we will not be judged by how many diplomas we have received, how much money we have made,or how many great things we have done.
We will be judged by "I was hungry, and you gave me something to eat, I was naked and you clothed me. I was homeless, and you took me in.” Thank you
Good luck, Dean Tuttle, with your coffee budget, and thank you for your honest and, what I found, objective messages. It is an interesting time we are going through and let's hope for the best. All we can hope for is that college campuses start a wave of balanced and tolerant exchange of opinions that would transcend to the rest of the country/world.
That's a much bigger task you and your colleagues have on your hands. And you thought coffee budget was going to be a problem!
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